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Turn Holiday Hassles into Holiday Happiness  by: Jean LeStourgeon, MA, LMHC All too often we look forward to the Holidays only to become overwhelmed, stressed out and ultimately lose our joy. Here are a few things you can do to stay in the spirit of the season and enjoy it to its fullest. First, ask yourself and your immediate family, how would you most enjoy celebrating the holidays? This question will help you figure out what is most important to you about celebrating the holidays. It will also help you determine if you may be stressing yourself with false guilt, "should do's" and fears of disappointing others. Take some time to talk with your family about what is really important to you and to them. Often times when we stop to ask the "how question" we discover what we thought was important to others really is not. Next, begin looking at your schedule. Do you realistically have the time to do all the things you would like to and still maintain your sanity! Start by penciling in events on your calendar to help yourself manage your time effectively. Include things like decorating, cooking, shopping and wrapping gifts. Be willing to compromise. For example if you have your heart set on decorating your house like Clark Griswald in "Christmas Vacation," but time is of the essence, consider something simpler or eliminate something else. Avoid perfectionist tendencies. For example: you want 12 ounce disposable cups for your party. But, when you get to Wal-Mart you can only find 8 ounce cups. Consider the time, energy and frustration you will expend traveling to other stores, in the holiday traffic, to find those 12 ouncers! Finally, to turn holiday hassles into happiness you can do some very practical things like: set a budget and stick to it, pay in cash and avoid the New Years credit card blues and choose recipes you can prepare ahead of time. However, if you really want to make holiday memories this year focus on relationships rather than activities. Consider giving the gifts of kindness and service. And keep your mind on the Reason for the Season...celebrate Jesus Christ, the greatest gift of all! About The Author Jean LeStourgeon, MA, is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor in private practice in Palm Bay, Florida. She also operates the website http://www.Christian-Counseling-Online.com where you can find lots more information and tools from a Biblical perspective on topics like stress management and marriage resource tools. http://www.christian-counseling-online.com/stress-management-college-students.html http://www.christian-counseling-online.com/marriage-problems.html Copyright 2005 Christian-Counseling-Online.com. You may have permission to use this article electronically or in print as long as all bylines are used and all links remain. The author would appreciate a copy of your publication. This article was posted on December 12, 2005 Read More Articles from the "Religion" Category: Is Anyone Burning In Hell Today? by Debra Lohrere Are You Ready To Lead Like Joshua? by Tianyi Lim Salaam Alaikum Brother by Gary Whittaker The Unbaptized Wallet (A Stewardship Illustration) by Rod Rogers This Too Shall Pass by Nikhil Gangoli About the History of the Christian Fish Symbol by Akili Kumasi The Fear in Religion by Roy E. Klienwachter Storytelling by Cory L. Kemp Who Made The First New Year's Resolution? by James L. Snyder Genesis 1 & 2: Fact or Parable? by Ray McIntyre << Back to "Religion" Index

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