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The Difference Between What Sexy Women Say And What Sexy Women Do
 by: John Alanis


One of the best success strategies I learned early on, in attracting sexy women, was to listen to what they say, but make decisions based on what they do. By the way, this is another gem that applies across the spectrum in human behavior and interaction, but consider this. When someone is saying something, that is a conscious process, a reflection on behavior, not behavior itself. That's why there is a vast difference between what people say they will do, and what they actually do.

Let me give you an example. I have a friend of mine who mails a 20 pages sales letter that sells a $10,000.00 product. It's ugly yellow, with a nasty green order form. When you show it to people and ask if they would respond to it, they all say NO... including, strangely enough, ones who have.

The truth of the matter is that people WILL send in $10,000.00 when they receive this letter, even if they deny it. Why? Because when you ask them about it, they're engaging in a conscious process, reflecting on what is unconscious behavior. When they get the letter in the mail, and are intrigued by it, they're behavior is being driven by an unconscious process.

That's why it's amusing to me that so many sexy women say they would never approach a guy, and yet, under the right circumstances, they all will approach a guy. If for example, they're attracted to a particular celebrity, and they see that celebrity in person and have a once in a lifetime chance to talk to them, they will. Why? Because they KNOW the celebrity will NOT approach them... why should he? He has women approaching him all the time.

The same thing holds with the automatic attraction systems I teach men how to create. They don't work on a conscious level, they work on an unconscious level. In fact, even after a sexy woman has approached you, she will deny that she ever approaches men. And yet... she approached you!

It happens to me all the time, and there are sexy women in my life who deny to this day that they approached me, insisting that I approached them first. That doesn't bother me a bit- -the result we were both after was achieved, and if they want to insist that I approached them first, it's fine by me.

The point is to put little stock in what people say, and pay attention to what they actually do. Especially when attracting sexy women. When you start doing that, you start getting better results... like desirable women approaching you who insist they never have (and never will) approached a man in their life.

About The Author

John Alanis, "The King of Let 'em Come to You", is author of the "Women Approach You" system at http://www.womenapproachyou.com. His blog is at http://www.johnalanis.com.

This article was posted on February 23, 2006

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