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Flirting With A Girl: Types of Flirting
One thing many guys don't remember is that there are some ground rules for flirting. Once you know and understand these, you'll have an easier time with women. Do you understand that there are different types of flirting, which are directly tied to WHO you flirt with? A lot of people don't. Fun, harmless flirting can be done with almost any girl. Just exercise a degree of caution when doing it. This is mainly banter, and glances. In this case, it's also important to see the difference between friendly behavior and sexual flirting. Men are more likely to do this, as women supposedly have a 'diplomacy' gene that allows them to sense things in the interaction that men will miss. What is definitely stacked against us is that we see the world in more sexual terms than women. Overall, it's best to step back for a moment when it's going on to determine what is really happening. After that, you'll get into flirting with the purpose of picking up. This is more deliberate and you'll need to understand some rules for this type of encounter. The first trick is to remember to flirt with someone of your level of attractiveness, at least to start. Now... that begs the question: how attractive are you? That's a tough question, and I'll answer it in another article. It takes some objectivity on your part. A plus to this understanding is that your level of attractiveness isn't permanent. You can become FAR more attractive with a bit of effort on your part. And attractiveness isn't just about looks either. Another issue you'll face regarding this is that women often misjudge their own attractiveness as well. Some beautiful women have poor body images, while others think they are far more attractive than they are. So don't hesitate to talk with any of them! Basically, you can become more attractive. Increasing your game in certain ways: charm, confidence, your looks, etc.. So no one should be off limits, but until you've done everything to maximize yourself, don't be put off by the idea of learning steps and small victories. The second trick is to avoid flirting with someone who isn't going to return your interest. Now, this can be confusing. I recommend that you present yourself as best as possible: be well dressed, well mannered, and well versed in flirting. Take good care of yourself. This will tips the odds in your favor. Now, understand a simple, basic concept that is obvious if you think about it. Women have their ideals which become more and more apparent as they age. They are looking for men who can provide for them or offer a rise in their status. Men, like you and I, prefer youth and attractiveness. Simple stuff, but it seems rather restricting. Are you wealthy, or famous? Do you "do well"? This doesn't mean you can't find a "10", it just means you need to work harder to get one. Confidence and charm go a LONG way in helping with this. There are more ideas on this at my site. It goes without saying, for best results, avoid married women, someone who is obviously with someone else, or someone who can change your life in a negative manner (your boss, for instance). In future articles I'll get into how to flirt. It's just as important to know as who to flirt with and the types of flirting you'll encounter.
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