Who Says YOUR Personality Was Important? by Terry Leslie

Who says that women are attracted to looks, money and fame?

In fact, most women care most about how we can make them feel. It has nothing to do with looks, money or fame. We do not need to be a Brad Pitt or George Clooney. We have been given what we have so use it! We should focus on our strengths not our ‘perceived’ weaknesses. Notice how I mentioned ‘perceived’. Because that is really what it is, just perception rather than fact.

In fact, we should be quite relieved. We have it easy. When a man is not physically attracted to a woman, there is not much she can do to change things. But it is always possible for a man who don’t have the looks, the height, the wealth, the fame to make a women ‘feel’ the same way we do when we see a physically beautiful women. No that’s cool!,

Women have been pre-conditioned from early childhood to respond automatically to different men who have certain personalities, their communication skills, (yes I did say communication, so make sure this is brushed up, they will notice!), their masculinity and direction in life, and not just YOUR looks. Phew, that’s a relief for those who perceive themselves not to be up to a standard you have set for yourself. Don’t get me wrong though, certain women do pre-judge based on initial looks but in the long term, EVERY women is attracted to a magnetic personality and not just looks.

In short, there is really two types of personalities who want to strive for because these provide the most attraction to women.

They are that of a ‘Lover’ AND/OR a ‘Provider’. You can be either one, but to strive for the most attraction in both the short term and long term, I believe it’s important you strive to become both, even though one will usually dominate over the other!

Why you may ask?

Firstly, let me first describe what each one is first.

The ‘Lover’ personality types are those who can attract women that want to have sex with you very quickly, if not even immediately. The so called one strike dates.

The ‘Provider’ personality types attract the women who ultimately withhold sex to ensure that they first feel secure in knowing that you are the long term loyal type. These women don’t necessarily need to withhold sex until marriage but will give you a good long run before sex is even considered.

Now, can you imagine becoming both. Think about the amount of women you can attract. Like men, all women love sex, even though most don’t admit it or show it. But, if you could set yourself apart by also giving them the feeling that you too can also be a provider of stability, wow, then you have got them all for life, provided that’s what you are seeking for in the first place though!

In the mean time, Good Luck!

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About The Author

Terry Leslie is a successful and world renowned authority figure on creating and maintaining successful relationships. A much sought after global speaker in the areas of intimate relationships, self-improvement and human peak potential training. Terry Leslie travels the globe with the aim of sharing and empowering anyone who wishes to learn and apply the methods which has been developed through practical experience and help those who wish to learn achieve their dreams and desires.